Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Selflessness (Philippians 2: 1-4)

The scripture has evidently showed us the “selfless” love of Jesus. We are surrounded by his glory, and his everlasting grace and mercy has showered upon us. Henceforth,
Is it possible for us, humans, to be completely selfless?

What do we mean by True Selflessness?

True Selflessness means that we act without having to expect something in return and would do the action, even if it was never known to anyone else. It also means we identify with others as well. Our service to others is not an act of lofty charity in helping others, 不是为了可怜或同情; our action is motivated by a feeling of oneness. We help others because we identify with their problems and their suffering.

In a true selfless action we are not acting to feed our ego and receive the flattery of the world; we are not acting out of competition or desire to prove how capable we are. Selflessness means we act out of a motivation to do the right thing and help others.

反而, when we act only out of selfish motives we bind and limit ourselves. I did a research on the internet and it says that “if we calculate every action that we do to others, and see how we might benefit; this attitude may hinders the intuitive and spontaneous feelings of the heart. (思想 & 直觉)” But when we act through selfless motives, it enables us to expand our own sense of identity and also allow us to get joy from serving others. Keeping this ‘selfless’ attitude inside us, we may even prevent the sinful seeds to grow in us such as jealousy or wanting to be stronger and etc.

Maybe there are some practical things that we can help ourselves with for being a true selfless person:-
  1. always focus only on the well being of all others
  2. only focus on the wellbeing of your partner in all you ever do - never occupy your mind with your own needs or wishes
  3. when you realize there are many needs and limited resources - always fulfill the needs of all others first
  4. when having a selection of things to share - always offer the most valuable, the best and nicest or most delicious things to others
  5. be always ready to share any amount of time needed by others whenever they need
  6. Always strive for perfection in all you do - offering the best possible work and services equally to all people in the community. (Non-members and Members)
  7. the happiness of all others including God's happiness should be your true and only goal in all action or decisions

I’ve watched this video (from my previous entry) many times and each time I watched, it has always been so ministering to me. Just a little background, there is new born baby who has been diagnosed with some diseases since born and caused him to be immobilized for his entire life. However, the father, refuses to give up and later he soon discovered that his son’s eyes can react to the various communications that his father did. Hence his father has designed a machine to help him by his eyes to be his form of communication.

I felt an immense gratefulness when I watched this video (my previous entry), because being an earthly father, with such limitations, he still do his best by going through all these triathlons, marathons etc. with his son. Just because he son said that he no longer felt handicapped when his dad runs with him. Can u imagine that the father is not young, and in order to go through hundreds of runs, how much effort and time he has to put in for trainings?


So looking upon our heavenly father, a powerful and mighty one, with no limitations, isn’t he is great and selfless?

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

I Can Only Imagine

On my birthday today,

Reflected upon the Lord's blessings.....
Last Sunday's Gospel Sunday, our guest speaker Rev Philip Huan have shared a video that i have watched many times but each time I watched, I would always be ministered by it.

Including the song, it matches so well and indeed God longs to be with us and to fellowship with us. God is our perfect Father in heaven and we need to walk closely with him.

Song link:-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfWwtsWC44g&feature=related

Video link:-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GRHxHapwirw

* Please pray along with me as i hope i can share this video and the message with my non-believer friends. Praying for good opportunity.... and their open hearts...

Beware to prep lots of tissues if you watch this video...

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

I Had Enough!!!

Not knowing what had happened....

Because of one public holiday, no caretaker, nobody take responsibility to tend the place.
Because of one public holiday, all ministries take the opportunity to meet for planning.

Because of one carelessness, air-con not switched off properly.

Because of one STUPID FREAK!!! (i dun even want to categorize her as woman. Is a disgrace and is a humilation to us!) who's life is a mess! Dun even know how to manage own $$$ and keep bossing ard ppl and saying wasting HER money when it doesn't belongs to her!!!! Keep making noise like a chicken (pok-pok-pok-pok)....non stop!!!!!! Then everyone comes and point finger at me everyday!!!!! as if i'm not being responsibile!!!!! Whenever ppl come to me on the same topic, the FREAK will laugh and laugh loudly like she's farting and talks and talks loudly like she's snoring!!!!!!!

So pls...to all ministries, pls be more responsible and watch out!!!! Or else..... u will DIE like me!!!!!

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Meaning of "Kaypo"

Busybody means (according to online dictionary):

1. a person who meddles in the affairs of others nosey parker
2. 中文(简体)(Chinese (Simplified)) 爱管闲事的人

3. A person who meddles or pries into the affairs of others.

I think for my own definition of "Busybody" shld be a person who PRIES into the affirs of EVERYONE and also known as a NOSY-PARKER!

So in conclusion,

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!

Pain...pain....

Dysmenorrhoea (painful menstruation)
While some women experience only mild discomfort during menstruation, other women suffer from severe, incapacitating pain. Period pain is more common in adolescents and women in their 20s, but can also occur in older women. Women may get pain a few days before their period or during the first few days of bleeding. Period pain can consist of a cramping-type pain, caused by the contraction of the uterine muscles, or a heavy dragging pain in the pelvic region. Pain in the legs and back, headaches, nausea and diarrhoea are also common. Popular remedies for mild pain include analgesics (painkillers), antiprostaglandins (eg. Nurofen, Ponstan), herbal medicines, warm baths, heat packs, gentle exercise and rest. Treatment for more severe period pain includes the use of antiprostaglandins and oral contraceptives. To be effective at treating pelvic pain, antiprostaglandins need to be taken before the pain starts. Therefore, women should aim to take them the day before their period is expected. If women do not find relief with these treatments they should consult their doctor. A woman may have endometriosis, a condition in the tissue which lines the uterus grows in other parts of the body outside the uterus.

Premenstrual syndrome
Premenstrual syndrome refers to a collection of symptoms that some women experience before each period. Symptoms include physical responses like bloating, headaches, tiredness and food cravings and psychological responses like irritability, anger, depression and lowered self-esteem. Women who suffer from premenstrual syndrome find exercise, dietary changes, yoga, relaxation techniques and herbal remedies are helpful in relieving symptoms.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Nutritions...

Good Fatty Food:

1. Tuna
Tuna, and other fatty, dark-skinned fish, came out tops.
Fatty fish contains omega-3 fatty acids, which help to lower cholesterol levels and reduce the risk of heart disease.
Research suggests that the omega-3s can also play a role in preventing conditions like hypertension, rheumatoid arthritis, Alzheimer's disease, depression, dry eye syndrome, and possibly cancer. These are all diseases that affect a staggering number of people across the globe.
Make a plan to eat fatty fish at least two to three times a week. Just make sure you lay off on the batter and added fat.

2. Eggs
A single egg is packed with goodness. And while eggs do contain cholesterol, the effect is not as detrimental as scientists once believed.
For as little as 75 calories, an egg provides 12% of the daily recommended value for protein, as well as a wide variety of other nutrients such as vitamin A, B6, B12, D, folate, iron, phosphorous and zinc.
On top of this, the humble egg is now also categorised as a "functional food", i.e. a food that provides health benefits beyond its basic nutritional benefits.
The key is the carotenoids, lutein and zeaxanthin, found in egg yolks. These substances collect in parts of the eye and have been shown to play a role in promoting vision and preventing some common causes of blindness.
A word of warning though: make sure your cholesterol levels are normal before you start including more eggs in your diet. You may be suffering from high cholesterol without knowing it.
However, if your cholesterol levels have been tested and are normal, two or three eggs per week could boost your health. Just remember to opt for poached, boiled or scrambled eggs instead of fried ones.
(Keep an eye out for pasteurised eggs. These eggs, which are now available at Checkers and Checkers Hyper stores in Gauteng and the Western Cape, are safe to use if you're pregnant or immune compromised.)

3. Beans
Baked beans, black beans, lima beans, kidney beans. Eating plenty of beans can reduce your risk of heart disease and stroke and help prevent cancer, researchers say.
This is mostly due to the fact that beans are a rich source of antioxidants. A variety of veggies, fruits, legumes and nuts recently battled it out for the top spot on a new list of the 20 most antioxidant-rich foods. The small red bean came out tops, and red kidney beans and pinto beans weren't far behind.
A serving (one-third cup of cooked beans) contains about 80 calories (336kJ), little fat, no cholesterol, and plenty of complex carbohydrates. These legumes also provide a good source of B vitamins, potassium and fibre.
Legumes make a great side dish and can also be used as a substitute for meat as it's inexpensive. While legumes don't contain complete proteins such as meat, you could supplement your diet by eating grain or dairy products along with legumes. This is particularly useful in the diet of the vegetarian.

4. Cocoa
Here's a bit of good news for chocoholics: the delicious treat could lower your risk for heart disease and hypertension.
It looks like cocoa exerts its positive effect mainly in three ways: firstly, by keeping the endothelium (the layer of cells that lines the heart and blood vessels) healthy, thereby reducing the risk of heart attacks; secondly, by lowering blood pressure, which is also related to heart disease; and thirdly, by modulating platelet function in a similar way as aspirin does.
However, the key ingredients in cocoa, what scientists call flavanols, are only present in dark chocolate.
Although more research needs to be done, it's probably safe to say that a small helping (10 g) of good-quality chocolate every day could do no harm – if the chocolate is of the darker variety, and if it forms part of an energy-controlled diet.

5. Brazil nuts
Due to Brazil nuts' high selenium content, these nuts can be seen as a "complete" protein source.
This means that, unlike the proteins in most plant products, Brazil nuts' proteins contain all the necessary amino acids to foster optimal growth in humans in the same way as proteins from animal products do. But even animal products, like chicken and beef, don't contain as much selenium as Brazil nuts do.
Selenium is also a powerful antioxidant, which protects against harmful free radicals that may cause heart disease and cancer. Selenium is also important for healthy immunity. And Brazil nuts are also a very good source of zinc (essential to digestion and metabolism).
Eight medium Brazil nuts count as one serving (30 g). Since these nuts are high in fat, they shouldn't be included in the diet more than three times per week. These nuts should also replace other fats in the diet and shouldn't just be added.
Note, however, that, because of its high saturated fat content, Brazil nuts could be a dangerous addition to your diet if you are at risk of heart disease. Rather opt for nuts with less fat, like almonds, if this is the case.

6. Garlic
Garlic is not only a great way to add a little kick to a pasta dish; it also offers tremendous health benefits because of its high antioxidant content.
Research has shown that garlic could help prevent heart disease, hypertension and cancer, and can possibly improve lung function. Garlic is also a great way to boost one's immunity – especially in wintertime.
Include a clove or two of garlic in your diet every day. Just make sure that the garlic isn't overcooked. And steer clear of garlic if you're on anti-coagulant medication.

7. Yoghurt
Yoghurt not only contains bone-building calcium, but is also a great source of probiotics.
Probiotics are microbial foods or supplements that can be used to change or improve the intestinal bacterial balance to boost the health of the host. Probioics thwart the overgrowth of harmful bacteria by competing for attachment sites and nutrients in the gastrointestinal tract.
Include a tub of fat-free or low-fat yoghurt in your diet every day – just make sure the label states "live AB cultures".

8. Citrus
You probably know that citrus fruits are a fantastic source of vitamin C, but did you know that oranges, naartjies, lemons and grapefruit are all also rich in antioxidants?
Citrus contains zeaxathin (like eggs) that maintains healthy vision. These fruits are rich in flavanones that play a role in preventing cancer. Citrus fruits also contain caffeic acid that may reduce the risk of heart disease and eye disease.
A variety of delicious citrus fruits are available in South Africa. Depending on the season, try to include citrus fruits in your diet as often as possible.

9. Bananas
Research has shown that high-potassium foods, of which the banana is a prime example, may lower the risk of stroke.
Potassium also plays a vital role in the functioning of the muscles, heart and nerves. It ensures that the body’s fluid levels remain balanced and that the body is neither too alkaline nor too acidic. It also prevents calcium from being lost in the urine.
Eating bananas before bedtime can also make for a good night's sleep, as bananas help to increase serotonin levels. To top these benefits, bananas help to maintain bowel health and are good energy-boosting snacks.

10. Cranberries
Cranberries are packed with proanthocyanidins that have been shown to reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke, and improve urinary tract health. New research shows that cranberry juice may also work against gastrointestinal viruses.
Drink 300 ml cranberry juice every day to reap the benefits.

- (Carine van Rooyen, Health24)

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Knowing more about Diabetic...

Since after my mom last diagnosed with breast cancer and finished her treatment cycle. Now another illness has attacked my mom which is Diabetes. Guessed it quite long time ago when oberserving the way how my mom eats and the family history. Both my maternal grandma and eldest uncle are also diabetes patients.

Hence, to find and understand more about diabetes, i googled and not only i understand more about diabetes but also found out that there are 2 types of diabetes:


"The term diabetes, without qualification, usually refers to diabetes mellitus, which is associated with excessive sweet urine (known as "glycosuria") but there are several rarer conditions also named diabetes. The most common of these is diabetes insipidus in which the urine is not sweet (insipidus meaning "without taste" in Latin); it can be caused by either kidney (nephrogenic DI) or pituitary gland (central DI) damage. It is a noninfectious disease. Among the body systems affected are the nerve, digestive, circulatory, endocrine and urinary systems.
The World Health Organization projects that the number of diabetics will exceed 350 million by 2030. Governments and other healthcare providers around the world are investing in health education, diagnosis and treatments for this chronic, debilitating - but controllable - disorder
The term "type 1 diabetes" has universally replaced several former terms, including childhood-onset diabetes, juvenile diabetes, and insulin-dependent diabetes mellitus (IDDM). Likewise, the term "type 2 diabetes" has replaced several former terms, including adult-onset diabetes, obesity-related diabetes, and non-insulin-dependent diabetes mellitus (NIDDM). Beyond these two types, there is no agreed-upon standard nomenclature. Various sources have defined "type 3 diabetes" as, among others,
gestational diabetes, insulin-resistant type 1 diabetes (or "double diabetes"), type 2 diabetes which has progressed to require injected insulin, and latent autoimmune diabetes of adults (or LADA or "type 1.5" diabetes.) There is also maturity onset diabetes of the young (MODY) which is a group of several single gene (monogenic) disorders with strong family histories that present as type 2 diabetes before 30 years of age.

Type 1 diabetes mellitus is characterized by loss of the insulin-producing beta cells of the islets of Langerhans in the pancreas leading to a deficiency of insulin. This type of diabetes can be further classified as immune-mediated or idiopathic. The majority of type 1 diabetes is of the immune-mediated variety, where beta cell loss is a T-cell mediated autoimmune attack. There is no known preventive measure which can be taken against type 1 diabetes; it is about 10% of diabetes mellitus cases in North America and Europe (though this varies by geographical location), and is a higher percentage in some other areas. Most affected people are otherwise healthy and of a healthy weight when onset occurs. Sensitivity and responsiveness to insulin are usually normal, especially in the early stages. Type 1 diabetes can affect children or adults but was traditionally termed "juvenile diabetes" because it represents a majority of the diabetes cases in children.
The principal treatment of type 1 diabetes, even in its earliest stages, is the delivery of artificial insulin via injection combined with careful monitoring of blood glucose levels using blood testing monitors. Without insulin,
diabetic ketoacidosis often develops which may result in coma or death. Treatment emphasis is now also placed on lifestyle adjustments (diet and exercise) though these cannot reverse the progress of the disease. Apart from the common subcutaneous injections, it is also possible to deliver insulin by a pump, which allows continuous infusion of insulin 24 hours a day at preset levels, and the ability to program doses (a bolus) of insulin as needed at meal times. An inhaled form of insulin was approved by the FDA in January 2006, although it was discontinued for business reasons in October 2007. Non-insulin treatments, such as monoclonal antibodies and stem-cell based therapies, are effective in animal models but have not yet completed clinical trials in humans.
Type 1 treatment must be continued indefinitely in essentially all cases. Treatment need not significantly impair normal activities, if sufficient patient training, awareness, appropriate care, discipline in testing and dosing of insulin is taken. However, treatment is burdensome for patients; insulin is replaced in a non-physiological manner, and this approach is therefore far from ideal. The average glucose level for the type 1 patient should be as close to normal (80–120 mg/dl, 4–6 mmol/l) as is safely possible. Some physicians suggest up to 140–150 mg/dl (7-7.5 mmol/l) for those having trouble with lower values, such as frequent hypoglycemic events. Values above 400 mg/dl (20 mmol/l) are sometimes accompanied by discomfort and frequent urination leading to dehydration. Values above 600 mg/dl (30 mmol/l) usually require medical treatment and may lead to ketoacidosis, although they are not immediately life-threatening. However, low levels of blood glucose, called hypoglycemia, may lead to seizures or episodes of unconsciousness and absolutely must be treated immediately, via emergency high-glucose gel placed in the patient's mouth, intravenous administration of dextrose, or an injection of glucagon.

Type 2 diabetes mellitus is characterized differently and is due to insulin resistance or reduced insulin sensitivity, combined with relatively reduced insulin secretion which in some cases becomes absolute. The defective responsiveness of body tissues to insulin almost certainly involves the insulin receptor in cell membranes. However, the specific defects are not known. Diabetes mellitus due to a known specific defect are classified separately. Type 2 diabetes is the most common type.
In the early stage of type 2 diabetes, the predominant abnormality is reduced insulin sensitivity, characterized by elevated levels of insulin in the blood. At this stage hyperglycemia can be reversed by a variety of measures and
medications that improve insulin sensitivity or reduce glucose production by the liver. As the disease progresses, the impairment of insulin secretion worsens, and therapeutic replacement of insulin often becomes necessary.
There are numerous theories as to the exact cause and mechanism in type 2 diabetes.
Central obesity (fat concentrated around the waist in relation to abdominal organs, but not subcutaneous fat) is known to predispose individuals to insulin resistance. Abdominal fat is especially active hormonally, secreting a group of hormones called adipokines that may possibly impair glucose tolerance. Obesity is found in approximately 55% of patients diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. Other factors include aging (about 20% of elderly patients in North America have diabetes) and family history (type 2 is much more common in those with close relatives who have had it). In the last decade, type 2 diabetes has increasingly begun to affect children and adolescents, probably in connection with the increased prevalence of childhood obesity seen in recent decades in some places. Environmental exposures may contribute to recent increases in the rate of type 2 diabetes. A positive correlation has been found between the concentration in the urine of bisphenol A, a constituent of polycarbonate plastic from some producers, and the incidence of type 2 diabetes.
Type 2 diabetes may go unnoticed for years because visible symptoms are typically mild, non-existent or sporadic, and usually there are no ketoacidotic episodes. However, severe long-term complications can result from unnoticed type 2 diabetes, including renal failure due to diabetic nephropathy, vascular disease (including coronary artery disease), vision damage due to diabetic retinopathy, loss of sensation or pain due to diabetic neuropathy, liver damage from non-alcoholic steatohepatitis and heart failure from diabetic cardiomyopathy.
Type 2 diabetes is usually first treated by increasing physical activity, decreasing
carbohydrate intake, and losing weight. These can restore insulin sensitivity even when the weight loss is modest, for example around 5 kg (10 to 15 lb), most especially when it is in abdominal fat deposits. It is sometimes possible to achieve long-term, satisfactory glucose control with these measures alone. However, the underlying tendency to insulin resistance is not lost, and so attention to diet, exercise, and weight loss must continue. The usual next step, if necessary, is treatment with oral antidiabetic drugs. Insulin production is initially only moderately impaired in type 2 diabetes, so oral medication (often used in various combinations) can be used to improve insulin production (e.g., sulfonylureas), to regulate inappropriate release of glucose by the liver and attenuate insulin resistance to some extent (e.g., metformin), and to substantially attenuate insulin resistance (e.g., thiazolidinediones). According to one study, overweight patients treated with metformin compared with diet alone, had relative risk reductions of 32% for any diabetes endpoint, 42% for diabetes related death and 36% for all cause mortality and stroke.Oral medication may eventually fail due to further impairment of beta cell insulin secretion. At this point, insulin therapy is necessary to maintain normal or near normal glucose levels.

After googling about diabetes, realised that having a balance diet is rather important. Hence went to search further on diabetic recepies.

Have been cooking for the past 1 week and have tried some receipes that i've googled. It is rather interesting, fun and of course not denying feeling a bit exhausted.

I really 'kowtow' those full time homemaker who cooks everyday, 3 meals a day. I only cooked on the average 1 meal a day though sometimes 2 meals a day (only on Sats).

Indeed health is important ton everyone, and as the Lord says our body is a temple of God, hence it is important for ourselves to be a good stewardship of our own body and our loved ones.